Hey there, I’m Jen Amabile.

I’m here to awaken you to the joyful wholeness that’s waiting just on the other side of doubt, fear and heartache.

You see - in 2010, I became somewhat of an expert in the topic of heartache.

My mom died of cancer when I was just 26 years old. In this one moment, my entire world came crashing down. It sent me into a cycle of depression and anxiety that lasted many years. I was suffering in my health and in my heart. The grief of mom’s passing illuminated all the ways in which I felt deeply lonely, and I desperately wanted to be married more than ever.

Though I’d always imagined as a young girl that I’d marry the man of my dreams in my 20’s, have three kids and live happily ever after…. my real life didn’t look anything like that fairtytale.

I was sure that if I could just “find my man,” I’d be happy again and magically fill the hole in my heart.

So I dated and dated. And dated some more. I had some good relationships and some not-so-good ones. But it all felt so unfulfilling. It’s like the more men I dated, the more empty I felt. More frustrated. More alone.

After far too long on this merry-go-round, I HAD to get real with myself.

None of these men were aligned with what I wanted - because I had no clue what that even was. I’d never really spent the time to ask myself before. Even in all my teenage daydreaming of the fairytale romance, I didn’t know how to envision the details of what my ideal partnership and marriage would look like. And - more importantly - how a partner could compliment MY strengths, needs and desires.

So, I took a break from it ALL and decided to really take advantage of being single.

I had to get clear on what I wanted - for me. Independent of anyone or anything.

And throughout this process of truly knowing and living for myself, I discovered some deep truths. There was so much I needed to work on from the inside before I would ever be ready for the type of relationship I desired on the outside.

Those truths are:

• I was never going to attract the man of my dreams while I was depressed and in an unhealthy state. I wasn't an unhealthy person per se, but I realized I had so much learning and growing to do on an emotional, spiritual and mental level.

• Looking for a man to make me feel fulfilled was the fastest way to leading a miserable, unfulfilled life.

• Maybe not meeting the man of my dreams (just yet!) was an invitation from the Universe to look deeper at my desires, and to discover and embrace all that I was meant to do and experience in this lifetime.

• I needed to change my lifestyle habits that were contributing to my depression and lack of motivation.

I’ve learned that as we start to heal old wounds, gain clarity and confidence in who we truly are — it is then that we’re in alignment for attracting true love when the time is right. And the best part?? In the meatime, we don’t need anyone outside of ourselves to feel fulfilled!

This is all possible for you, too, and I’d love to show you how!

But before I do, I invite you to consider this:

What if being single (for now) is the best thing that ever happened to you? ;)

All my love,

~ Jen